5 common mistakes when renting to friends & family—and how to avoid them

Thinking of renting to friends or family? Avoid the common pitfalls and protect your investment with these practical tips.

Renting a property to friends or family might seem like a convenient, stress-free solution. After all, you trust them, and the personal connection can feel like an added layer of security. However, mixing business with personal relationships can quickly lead to misunderstandings, financial losses, or damaged relationships. To help you navigate this unique situation, here are five common mistakes landlords make when renting to loved ones—and how to avoid them.

1. Skipping a formal lease agreement

Some landlords assume that renting to friends or family doesn’t require a formal lease. A verbal agreement or handshake might feel sufficient, but this approach can lead to confusion and disputes. Without clear terms in writing, disagreements about responsibilities—such as rent, maintenance, or notice periods—are almost inevitable. Drafting a proper lease agreement not only protects your property but ensures both parties start off on the same page.

2. Undercharging rent

Offering a “family discount” on rent may seem generous, but it can have financial repercussions. Charging less than market rent risks your investment’s profitability and can create tension if the discount later needs to be adjusted. Treat your property as a business asset and set the rent according to market value. This ensures fairness and avoids awkward conversations down the track.

3. Not setting boundaries

It’s easy for tenants who are friends or family to blur the lines by paying rent late, skipping maintenance obligations, or expecting special favours. Without clear boundaries, these behaviours can strain your relationship. Avoid misunderstandings by establishing expectations upfront, including the importance of timely rent payments, proper care of the property and open communication.

Neglecting regular inspections risks small issues escalating into costly repairs.

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4. Failing to document communication

Informal chats or verbal agreements can lead to misunderstandings, particularly when discussing changes to the rental terms. Keeping a written record of communication ensures clarity and reduces the risk of disputes. Emails, written confirmations, and even text messages can serve as a valuable reference. This approach helps both parties stay on the same page.

5. Overlooking regular property inspections

It’s tempting to assume a friend or family member will take better care of the property than a stranger, but this assumption can backfire. Neglecting regular inspections risks small issues escalating into costly repairs. Treat the arrangement professionally by scheduling regular property inspections and documenting your findings. This reinforces the boundaries you’ve set and protects the property’s condition.

How DPN can help

Renting to friends or family can work if you approach it professionally, with a clear lease agreement, fair market rent and open communication.  If you need help navigating these challenges, DPN's property management experts can provide tailored advice and support to ensure your property is managed with care and professionalism. Get in touch today to safeguard your investment.

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